If you and your partner ever argue over who does the dishes, who remembers the dentist appointments, or who always has to think about dinner, you’re not alone. These small but constant conflicts are rooted in something bigger: the mental load—the invisible labor of managing home and family life.

That’s exactly where the Fair Play Deck by Eve Rodsky steps in. It’s designed as both a card game and a conflict-resolution tool that helps couples rebalance responsibilities, reduce resentment, and bring more joy back into their relationship.

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As people, we tend to seek out black and white thinking . Some examples- if a person is in this group, they are not in THAT group. If this person believes this, they are bad. If they believe that, they are good. If I feel a certain way, all other evidence to the contrary must be wrong. Of coures, the reality is often so much messier, but also so much more expansive and adaptive. So, Why do we do this?